"Finally, The REAL Difference Between How Men and Women Communicate..."

From the desk of Jae Ellis,
President & Co-Founder, AskRomeo.com

Dear friend,

     Have you ever tried talking to someone of the opposite sex, especially when there's a lot of emotions involved or it's the first time you've met, and noticed that something just isn't clicking?  For whatever reason, you're not able to get your point across or get them to understand you...?

     In our society today a lot of people joke about this, in popular media, movies etc.  But this communication breakdown is actually a serious issue.  Marriages, romantic relationships, even business and professional relationships can all be damaged or destroyed by this.  And if you're single, looking to meet someone, this problem will make it exceedingly difficult and often impossible to make a connection or start a relationship.

     So what can you do about it?  Well, I'm going to break down a key distinction for you, right now, that will clear up the most fundamental barrier in verbal communication between the sexes.  I say verbal, because there are also some non-verbal communications barriers that commonly exist, but those we'll save for another lesson.  For now, if you can understand and use this distinction in verbal communication, you'll be ahead of 90 to 95 percent of the population today.

     Men are logical and literal communicators.  They like to pass factual data, and organize their communication into distinct chunks, statistics and numbers.  For example, men like to discuss sports team stats, the horsepower of their car, stock market trends and lists of specific tasks or accomplishments.  Men are often goal or objective-oriented thinkers.  In general, when they're trying to accomplish something, they tend to speak as literally and efficiently as possible.

     Overall, one could say that men don't 'Share Themselves', instead, they 'Talk Logically' about stuff.

     Women, on the other hand, tend to be more emotional and intuitive thinkers.  All of the women I've met like to share their feelings and experiences, share about what things mean to them, and the impact things have had on themselves and others.  They talk about relationships between people and groups, dramatic social events, and, even when it IS a logical communication, women are often speaking between the lines, implying all sorts of meanings and associations from the logical data.

     Overall, one could say that women don't 'Talk Logically' about things, instead, women tend to 'Share Themselves'.

     I'm so glad you asked!!  Click on the link for the next page, below, and we'll break down this distinction so you can use and apply it in your life, right now.