Ah, the perennial sage advice of well-intentioned friends, sisters, and mothers: “Just be yourself!” To them, it seems so wise — to you, it seems so ridiculous. You find yourself saying, “I haven’t had a good first date in months. How about I be Brad Pitt’s self?”
If there’s one “beginner” mistake that many AskRomeo clients, both male and female, tend to make, it is belittling themselves with self-limiting beliefs… Imagine that you say to yourself, “I can’t possibly go over and talk to that gorgeous girl (or hunky guy). I’m not rich enough (or pretty enough).”… Click on “Read More” to learn why that ISN’T true.
During AskRomeo Live Coaching events, a common mindset that we often have to correct in clients is the one that can commonly be expressed as “she’s out of my league.” Here’s a post that discusses why that isn’t true, but what you should do about it anyway.
Here’s the next in our three-part series of Thirty Places to Meet People — That Are NOT a Bar or Club. This post details Places 11 to 20 on that list… Plus, we address the reason behind the common complaint, “Whenever I Like Someone, They Don’t Like Me, and Whenever Someone Likes Me, I Don’t Like Them.”
The gang over at Collegehumor.com have posted a hilarious video depicting what’s going through the mind of a gorgeous girl when she’s out on the town. The video is meant for its entertainment value, but it can actually be extremely instructive. Click on “Read More” and follow the links to watch it now…
In an effort to increase overall level of Dating Wisdom of all people everywhere… welcome to our inaugural edition of “With a Little Help from Our Friends”, in which we link to some of the best recent posts written by the “Friends of AskRomeo”.
Up this week: dating coach Bill Gladwell, blogger Elle C. Grace, and Hugo Scwyzer of The Frisky…
… There was a lot I was missing, back in those younger days when I was still figuring all this out, about what goes on in a woman’s mind. I was worried that she might be embarrassed if I kissed her in public… that she may not feel comfortable enough with me yet… that she may not like me enough yet (but that could actually change)… Who knew when I would have another chance a girl this gorgeous?
In seven syllables: “approach her and ask her out.”
Gents, and ladies, it’s shortly before Valentine’s Day as I write this. I will guarantee, with mathematical certainty, that…
Here is a FANTASTIC article on the value of being direct from our friend Marni over at The Wing Girl Method. Click on “Read More” to get to the hyperlinks and check it out… and to learn how YOU can get a woman’s number in thirty seconds.
“Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die. ” — Malachy McCourt
Something to think about if…
Success Story :
“I’ll be at the party around nine. Prepare to be amazed by my transformation!”
-Meredith, VA
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