Ah, the perennial sage advice of well-intentioned friends, sisters, and mothers: “Just be yourself!” To them, it seems so wise — to you, it seems so ridiculous. You find yourself saying, “I haven’t had a good first date in months. How about I be Brad Pitt’s self?”
Gents, have you been told that you are not “romantic”? No matter how many times you try, are the women in your life complaining that you are not giving them enough attention? Are they constantly dropping hints or dragging you to romantic comedies to try and teach you what they would like from you?
During AskRomeo Live Coaching events, a common mindset that we often have to correct in clients is the one that can commonly be expressed as “she’s out of my league.” Here’s a post that discusses why that isn’t true, but what you should do about it anyway.
Here’s the next in our three-part series of Thirty Places to Meet People — That Are NOT a Bar or Club. This post details Places 11 to 20 on that list… Plus, we address the reason behind the common complaint, “Whenever I Like Someone, They Don’t Like Me, and Whenever Someone Likes Me, I Don’t Like Them.”
The gang over at Collegehumor.com have posted a hilarious video depicting what’s going through the mind of a gorgeous girl when she’s out on the town. The video is meant for its entertainment value, but it can actually be extremely instructive. Click on “Read More” and follow the links to watch it now…
In an effort to increase overall level of Dating Wisdom of all people everywhere… welcome to our inaugural edition of “With a Little Help from Our Friends”, in which we link to some of the best recent posts written by the “Friends of AskRomeo”.
Up this week: dating coach Bill Gladwell, blogger Elle C. Grace, and Hugo Scwyzer of The Frisky…
… There was a lot I was missing, back in those younger days when I was still figuring all this out, about what goes on in a woman’s mind. I was worried that she might be embarrassed if I kissed her in public… that she may not feel comfortable enough with me yet… that she may not like me enough yet (but that could actually change)… Who knew when I would have another chance a girl this gorgeous?
In seven syllables: “approach her and ask her out.”
Gents, and ladies, it’s shortly before Valentine’s Day as I write this. I will guarantee, with mathematical certainty, that…
Gentlemen, here are some things to keep in mind when you’re out this weekend in venues full of women on the weekend before Valentine’s Day.
And girls, while this post focuses on the guys’ perspective, it’s worth your time to read it also, for at least two reasons…
Here is a FANTASTIC article on the value of being direct from our friend Marni over at The Wing Girl Method. Click on “Read More” to get to the hyperlinks and check it out… and to learn how YOU can get a woman’s number in thirty seconds.
Success Story :
“I’ll be at the party around nine. Prepare to be amazed by my transformation!”
-Meredith, VA
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